My mom, has 10 siblings. 7 guys and 3 girls. paklong passed away long ago. so Pakngah, is the eldest since then. 

As we're busy growing up, they're also grew older. the aunty (ies) has/have already stop production (of babies, of course) and now it's our turn, the 3rd generation of Jalal. i know, we're at that stage of age already. bahahaha. 

As they grew older, macam2 jadi. Aunty x mintak cerai from uncle y, uncle xy dah tua but didn't show any good example. always yang muda yang nasihatkan those yg tua. macam2 lagi. yang tua yg perangai pelik2, mcm budak2 gaduh2 bagai. then i came across this :

" Berbuat baik lah dimasa muda mu, beramal sebanyak mungin dimasa remaja mu"

ada sambungan lagu but dah lupa. sebab, amal masa muda akan tolong kita di masa tua. its like, masa tua tu payback time apa yg dah kita buat masa muda lah. that's why also we have to find a good accompany for our life (partner), so that it will benefit our future. see, apa yg Allah suruh semua ada hikmah. let's start the new year with new things, improving our ibadah, new us. buku baru, lets strive for something bigger than just pakai tudung and solat semata mata. lets start with, being new us, better than yesterday us. =)

salam maal hijrah :)